[AnnieK]

I rarely argue these days if I can help it.

I have a red headed temper and have worked a lot over the years to control it (i was very hot headed when I was younger and could be vicious).

I rarely say things I don't mean but if pushed I will sometimes say things that are truthful but that I would normally not say to keep the peace so at times I regret that as it can open a can of worms that I would rather keep closed.

In all honesty, life is too short to argue- I would much rather walk away and have the argument internally (which I obviously always win) and then I can move on.