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Originally Posted by GoldHeart
I'm not into malicious gossip for the sake of it, if someone has done something bad or they've done something which has an affect on the people around them or a situation, then I might get sucked in ... but again it depends.
I also feel like I've been the one being told gossip more,than actually doing the gossiping myself..if that makes sense .
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Even then I try not-to until I’ve heard both sides of the story. Sometimes the party who claims to be negatively-affected by someone’s actions did a lot more wrong to them than they choose to admit/let-own and (intentionally-or-otherwise) paint the other person as a total villain. Sometimes it’s a case of them being given a taste of their own medicine (for-example) and them being too emotionally-immature to deal with it without starting a smear-campaign against them in reactive retaliation.