[Ruth]

Do you believe that sex is wrong before marriage or does it not bother you?

No I don't think it's wrong. I lived with my husband before we got married, and more and more people are choosing not to get married at all.

If someone is promiscuous would you care or would you think they are less of a person for sowing their wild oats?

If it was a friend, and I thought s/he was doing it because they were insecure or were 'looking for something' - or if they were doing it because they thought it would make people like them - I would be concerned only for their welfare. If someone is happy, then fine - who am I to judge? The only thing is that if you are sleeping with someone for the sake of having sex and nothing else, I think it is only right to be honest about it, and not let someone believe that it is going to lead to something more.

Its it ok for males to have one night stands and not women?

The gender is irrelevant to me.