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Originally Posted by Conzors
Hmmm I’m on the fence with this one, it’s impossible to remember everything someone’s gone through however if you’re speaking of close friends and family members then absolutely right, they can’t just expect you to get up and get on with it so quickly,
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From my experience over the last 11 years it comes from both friends, distant and close. The distant ones just drop their feet in it now and again with comments that make you feel bad for them rather than yourself as they realise what they've said. The amount of "its ok, no need to apologise)' s I've said has made that a normal occurrence and one that doesnt trigger anything.
It's when your close friends see you as a bore, or say things like, you used to be a cracking laugh" to ther friends when you ain't there. That's what kills you deep down. Cause you know it's TRUE.