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Originally Posted by Cherie
Not necessarily possessive, but someone who gets jealous if another person checks you, or you check them out. Someone who questions your choice of outfit on a night out, someone who asks who you're texting a lot etc...
That all sounds kinda controlling tbh and it might be flattering that someone is possessive to begin with but the novelty would soon wear off
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Yeah that's true, the most toxic relationship i ever had was with someone who questioned my every move, ironically it was her who cheated on me in the end. When she went out for a work do, and slept with another man. I forgave her, but her possessiveness got worse because in her mind i was gonna cheat on her to get her back, i didn't, and i wasn't. That relationship was a mess.
She would go out at weekends, maybe once a month with her work friends, and she ALWAYS asked why i was fine with it. I just said "well i trust you" and she knew i was fine with her flirting.