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Originally Posted by Soldier Boy
When you've been married for 15 years (and are close) you become sort of a hive mind. I don't have to tell her anything, we just... do talk about everything. I just tend to assume that if I tell a friend who is married something, then their partner will also know about it, and that's fine. If it was then spread any further than that from either of them, I wouldn't be happy.
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I wouldn’t be happy with someone’s spouse who doesn’t know me and isn’t anything to do with me becoming privy to personal information second-hand but then worse stuff happens behind closed doors, and spouses aren’t always comfortable doing secrets. But if it went any further than that without a good reason you’d probably be dead to me from that point. And if you work in an environment where confidentiality’s important then the information generally stays within those four walls and then you go home. I wouldn’t be telling my spouse about that or expect them to feel entitled to know just because we’re married.