[vesavius]

I am more than OK with him living how he chooses, no one's being hurt, but I dislike the way that he tries to gaslight Olivia here.

It came across as him saying that she was somehow lesser or less enlightened for not sharing his view on it and that she could reprogram her worldview to be somehow better. That he was somehow superior because he likes to **** around.

The truth is that her views and preferences on it were equal to his. His lifestyle is not 'progressive', it's just an alternative.

He needs to respect others and the way that they choose to live as much as he expects the same from them.