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Originally Posted by Garfie
For me the worst traits have to be: manipulation, gaslighting, falseness, dishonesty, deceitfulness, aggression, inconsistency, bullying, cruelty.
I also find it difficult to tolerate people who are shallow, self-absorbed, overly loud, attention-seeking and erratic.
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Added to the bucket-list of loudness are people who can’t keep your confidence or preserve your dignity relatively because they don’t respect you enough or they just have the excuse of an exuberant, high-energy extravert who has little filter. There’s a difference between giving it too much of that and actually being a malicious gossip so I wouldn’t hate the person but sometimes a heart of otherwise rightfully-entrusted gold can be attached to a mouth that’s runny and gossipy. And unless they love you enough to practically be trusted with your life, 7/10 they will let you down via indiscretion. It’s just a matter of time. So I’m always a little wary of people who talk too much and worry what I might’ve told them in the past if I don’t think they’re capable of preserving the dignity. Doesn’t mean we can’t still be friends but I’ve got to be careful around you.