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Originally Posted by Soldier Boy
Also worth considering though Ammi - #1 it is far more often the case that women are harrassed/stalked/attacked by violent males and how often do you see them self-creating a dramatised version of it... much less one starring themselves?
I have real questions around the veracity of the storytelling with this one, there are places where 2+2 is definitely coming up with 5 for me. And the thing is... I'm not saying she isn't an unwell/unhunged/dangerous individual, I just suspect he is being ... economical ... with the full circumstances.
I realise this sounds a touch victim-blamey but like I said before, I would much rather hear the whole story warts'n'all and I guess it's sort of the opposite of victim blaming - as I'm NOT saying it would justify her in any way - and that's kind of the point.
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…but that’s what I mean….because there would be attachment of fear or presence of fear to very much factor as well…which for me seemed to be absent with this …was it because it was a female stalking a male..?…I’m not sure tbh because she did display physical violence and was very violent with someone he was dating/Teri…one of the things he said…’Martha made me feel as though I was the person that I wanted to be…’…I mean, I can totally get that a female could feel that also before behaviour became concerning…?…but not once the obsession became apparent and that stalker had physically attacked someone she was dating….