There's seriously something wrong with the current Anime fandom imo.
It's obviously not all of us, but I do think that sadly it is becoming the majority of the fandom that's like this.
I tried finding the Tweet that I saw last night from a fan of a series called Mushoku Tensei, where the creepy bastard put up a picture of this little girl kissing a guy, and the person who put the tweet up saying "I wish it was me, not him.
"
And this Anime is hugely popular within the Anime fandom, and one of it's big selling points that it promotes is the main guy having an harem of little girls around him.