[Ammi]

…there is no ‘fixed rule’ about such things, it’s the people in that relationship that fix those rules and boundaries as it were…if a partner were to feel and say for instance…I can’t have you even find another human being physically attractive and if you do, we’re through because that’s not something that I can cope with…it’s up to the other person in the partnership to say, hmmmmm ok then…but that for many would be a red flag situation…appreciating a physical loveliness is only that, nothing more and nothing less…it’s just appreciating physical features in a way that we appreciate character features in someone…