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Originally Posted by ThomasC
Well if you need to resort to swearing you have lost the argument before it even begins.
I like Ali's quick way of dealing with confrontation. She says what she says and walks away. It's annoying when the same confrontation is repeated such as Daze and Nathan
It's refreshing for someone to just say, we don't get on, we don't like each other and that's fine.
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I think the problem is exactly that Ali does just say what she says and walks away, rather than allowing the other person to express their thoughts and feelings fully. This doesn’t, however, allow any room for discussion or reconciliation, and doesn’t allow the other person to feel heard.
If two people genuinely don’t like each other, it is better to accept that and walk away. In this case, Ali does give the impression that she really doesn’t like Khaled, whereas he seems to be perceiving the situation as a difference of opinion that he hopes to resolve. I don’t think he is coming from a place of dislike.