I mean t would be pretty warped and messed up to lie about having a condition/ medical situation.. that is beyond her control. I agree she's manipulative and calculating, but i'm still going to believe she really has autism/ ADHD. Because why lie ?...even if it's from a sympathy woe is me tactic, people still need to be held accountable.
All this does is make us have more of an understanding , that her social cues etc will be different to others and she will react differently in situations. But she can still be criticised. And i am still seeing patterns in her i don't like, i know it must be difficult with that condition. But at the same time... i am not going to put her on a special pedestal.
But i will say i think some people may exaggerate or assume certain symptoms, like someone like Lily will probably be seen as someone with ADHD. But she's just acting like an irritating brat for the cameras and for attention

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