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Originally Posted by Ammi
…hopefully we’ll see later, a the wider context but atm it does feel a bit to me like a revolving circle in that Sarah didn’t seem to realise that anything she’d done or said had upset Khaled so he was obviously a bit, wow and taken aback and then she was also wow and take aback…and with that kind of situation and lack of understanding, there really is no other course but to talk it through…which Khaled was obviously not willing to do in the moment…whatever the circumstances leading up to, it had the effect of a close down which just leaves it hanging there as a negative vibe…
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Yes, that's true. Like Khaled seemed under the impression that Sarah should have realised, to him, she overstepped the mark but Sarah, in turn, couldn't see how so was baffled. I wonder if his 'not deep' might be 'I know I'm taking this more seriously than perhaps I should but give me space to get over it then I'll be fine'. But unless he communicates that it will fester.