..so anyway…
…I know some one …(…who had, had sexual partners when they were young because their path hadn’t at that time had thoughts of following a faith…)…then as life went forward, off to the US they went and while in the US…?…they found their faith and decided their life path would be to become a pastor of that Christian faith, they had become dedicated to…but rewind a little because they also met a lady in the US who was very dedicated to the same faith…which for both followed a ‘sexual abstinence’ before marriage…and because that’s a little less ‘regular’ shall we say in the western world we live in which is filled with temptations and such jazz…?…until so much further into their getting to know each other and dating etc…?…they had chaperones…they didn’t really have that alone time together to play fight and massage and such the like…(…so I’m thinking because that’s my only own association/attachment etc…)…that this is all a first for Segun so he doesn’t understand misleading or whatever….he just thinks of Hanah as someone he feels affection for but not in a romantic way…..
…anyway, that’s all, really…I love Hanah and I don’t love Segun but I think his ‘girlfriend situation’ is a bit more complex and layered than many of us would be familiar with…