The only thing about the letter is they're warning her to be careful of him... ok, but is that because they perceive she's actually interested? Because she's been saying the opposite... and if that turns out to be not be true, how is that different than what he is doing, exactly? I feel like it creates a cloud over both of them.
I'm definitely not defending Segun. I think he's bending space and time to move boundaries around so that he gets a bit of attention and camera time with a way to cop out. He's been using the girl back home every time he is questioned on his behavior as a prop to be able to do whatever he wants, basically. And even with a person like that supposedly waiting on the outside, it's not serious enough for him to use the L word, so it's not even a good excuse
The girl on the outside, if she even exists, should run to the papers if she was taken for a fool, but I certainly wouldn't take much of what Segun has said about any serious intentions at face value as speaking as in non-commitmental terms seems to be his native tongue..