View Single Post
Old 18-11-2024, 03:08 PM #16
bots's Avatar
bots bots is offline
self-oscillating
 
Join Date: Jul 2014
Posts: 52,045

Favourites:
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Sian


bots bots is offline
self-oscillating
bots's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2014
Posts: 52,045

Favourites:
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Sian


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Quantum Boy View Post
Can't say I know 100% for the US but I do know that for the UK this is actually purely perception; kids are not any less safe now than they have been at any time in history (actually slightly more safe, due to things like mobile phones and CCTV). We do HEAR more scary stories though, thanks to quick news and social media. It's basically an illusion but understandable that parents get worried.

We had another parent (online, of course) dishing out some very heavy judgement on a parenting forum for mentioning that our then-9-year-old was allowed to go to the park with her friends (literally less than 100m from our house). This persons 12 year old, she informed us, had never been further than their back garden alone.

But yes lack of freedom and responsibility has a quite catastrophic effect on adolescent psychology, unfortunately. It's a basic building block of normal development.

They were very different times though. For example, there were a lot more woman at home, they were always lets say "interested" in what kids were up to, so if something appeared unusual, they would know about it. That sort of "support" network just doesn't exist today
bots is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote