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And by the way, I totally agree that men (gay or straight) don't get decide what women should and shouldn't accept, however my opposition on here has been the overblown, anti-trans rhetoric that makes out trans people are this huge threat to society and particularly women.

I am totally on board with trans women not competing in sports should their strength, grip, speed levels not be in line with biological woman's. I've always maintained that after having years of HRT the physical ability of a trans women often matches that of a biological woman and levels the playing field and then it shouldn't be an issue.

My argument hasn't ever been "women need to accept this, says a gay man" it's been "lets contextualise why there are oppositions and see if it's rooted in truth or if it's rooted in decades of anti-trans media peddled by right-wing outlets".