The whole "PC" thing isn't funny. Blonde isn't an identity group, it's a hair colour.
You've admitted yourself you included it in order to provoke argument? Why would you purposefully provoke argument? At least Matt10k is arguing your point better than you are, I suppose - and so all future posts in this thread will refer to him, and him only - since he can actually debate fairly.
Ok, Matt10k - I see your point, and there are a lot of posts saying "I want someone goodlooking in the house" and "I want a hunk" but I don't like them either - and would bring up the same issue in those threads. Any physical aspect shouldn't determine a HM.