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Originally posted by Ash
It definitely is hormones, since every teenager goes through this phase. But, try not to use that as an excuse for getting away with things (like I used to do). You're going through a phase where you're wanting to speak your mind. I remember I used to always obey teachers etc., but then thought I was an individual in my own right and should be allowed to voice my views as well. The only problem is that they are professionals, usually completely aware of what they are doing, and therefore deserve the respect that, unfortunately, a very small number of pupils seem to give them.
I know you want to go back to your former self - usually people do want to go back to a time when they were happier. But you'll feel much better if you go through this time trying to remain as positive as possible (easier said than done I know), and then at the end you'll feel better for it.
I should be following this advice myself. It's better to move forward and do your best rather than dwell on the past, whether they be good or bad memories. Additionally, this may not work for everyone - especially not teenage boys as they seem to lose patience from my experience! - but possibly write down how you're feeling. I kept a diary through my 'low' phase, and it really helped me suss out my feelings and feel that much better.
Lastly, although you want a variety of opinions, it's probably best not to rely on a forum with a bunch of anonymous people to make you feel better. None of us are experts or really know you. Try to talk to people close to you about how you're feeling: it can be very therapeutic.
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Aww Thanks.
And thr last paragraph. When i try and talk to friends like, and theyre like telling me something i dont want to hear, like something i font agree with, i totally flip out on one, and go YOUR WRONG BLA BLA BLA.
So i feel like the internet is keeping me half-sane(if you get me)
LMAO.