OMG!
Ermm well.. I have never been in that situation and if I'm not surprised with the attitude i have seen from you on here before, you come across as arrogant and sexist, not forgeting to took the p*** out of my best friend!!
Good Luck With That Tho..
I cannot relate to it, so sorry no advise from me, you where clearly in the wrong..
Oh and one other thing.. Was she 14?! (Joke)