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Thanks for the responses, I thought I'd leave this and take a shower.

Scampi;; ha. nice one. i would but i'd rather keep their identities rather secret. hence why I haven't mentioned either of their names.

David_Purdy;; yeah, I'm sixteen

Shaun;; I know =| It always feels stronger when I'm with my bf. He seems to think that CG would just be a fling but then again, surely that's what he'd say anyway? I just really don't think I could end it with my bf. I honestly wish my bf had come into my life a few years later when I could be ready for a more serious relationship.

Chemicle;; I can see myself WITH him in 10/20 years, and happy-ish. I honestly think the only regret i'd have is that he'd be my only ever boyfriend. That makes me sound like such a slag but i'm only sixteen? i don't want to devote my life away.

tooperfect;; I may just try that, thanks.

Hannah;; I'm glad someone else understands that I don't want to be with one person for my life. I know I've got the time to see if things change, though it's putting me+my bf's relationship under strain since I'm frustrated, and he obviously doesn't like the thought of someone else potentially taking me away from him.

King;; that's an interesting view actually. My bf's changed me a lot as I've said, and a few months ago, I'd easily be able to end it, rather bluntly actually. He's calmed me down a lot and I don't want to hurt him. He's drunk often so that wouldn't be difficult. There's been times where I've actually wanted to walk out of his house because I can't deal with him drunk when I'm sober.

Lemonjam;; thank you<3 My feelings fluctuate. Sometimes I like CG more, other times I can't stop thinking about my bf [lmfao @ shaun'sabbreviations sticking to me].

Tom;; I suppose it's not, I just don't know what to do, whether I want to leave it more time, see how things go or what.

Annie;; I'm worried about that. I don't want to leave my bf who I've got a future with [regardless of how happy] and end up with a two week fling or whatever. He is older, and can support me emotionally/financially; however that also means that a lot of what I do, he disregards because he realizes that in a few weeks/months, it'll be old news. He's been through all that. I might just leave it as you+others have said. As for the hottest one? They're both so different it'd be hard to compare.

Z;; I guess six months is rather impressive, especially considering we've never argued. Been close to it, but we've never gone ahead. I don't want the relationship to start breaking down just because I'm having thoughts about the guy at college. I'm tempted to leave it, as you've said, to find flaws in the new guy, or whether I'm really happy with my bf.

Spike;; I am happy. I was until I found out this guy fancied me. I do really like him, and I've always thought it was strong. I guess 3 weeks doesn't really compare to 6 months. It hasn't even been 3, it's been just about 1 =| My relationships with people just move very quickly. There's so much to the word 'better' which makes it hard.

Thanks for the responses so far. I realize talking to my bf would help but this'd be one thing that'd be difficult to explain. My mates aren't much help either, hence why I've brought it here [the only other place i could think of turning to]