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Originally posted by supernoodles!
awww Kate,thanks for sharing what you went through =]
Reading everyones responses I agree,I think all people need different things when they loose someone close.I understand what you mean about making it worse when people mention it because although I can`t compare it to loosing a parent when my mam and dad split up I felt the same,people kept asking me if I was ok and being like really nice to me which made me even more upset,idk why but it did,I sort of couldn`t take everyone being nice.
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Yeah, I was exactly the same. It's really hard to know what's the right thing to do, some people like the attention (not in a bad way) and some people hate it so it's really hard to get the balance right.
The things I do know that most people hate is "I'm sorry" I don't know why, it's just kind of like an automatic responce and even if you do mean it, it doesn't feel like it
