Girlie, you're back!
Feefs has answered your post very eloquently, and I strongly endorse every word.
A few more observations about Paul are however necessary. He may not have a future in TV presenting, and he might have to struggle with only being a successful, well paid and well respected designer. I think it's a great loss for us, but he is probably very well out of it. Showbiz living looks like a nightmare to me.
I think he and Helen have made a very conscious choice not to jump on the circuit when they could have exploited their relationship. They both had families and circles of friends they were happy with, and they still seem to prefer their company. Why not? They didn't seek publicity, they were positively hounded at first.
Has Paul got charisma?
Well he works for me, and a good few others I could mention. At work the nurses and secretaries were positively salivating at the sight of him. If he walks into that hospital, he'll need a doctor before he leaves. Penny would have seemed like a breeze in comparison.
If that's not evidence enough, how about this:
He has a very expressive face and his eyes are absolutely 'knicker elastic perishingly gorgeous'
OK, if Paul talks in a monotone, I LIKE it! Funnily enough, so did the girl you admire so much, Helen!
As she observed, it's one very sexy, deep monotone.
When telling Brian about her feelings for Paul she said:
'He touches me and my body goes Ker-ching!!'
'And when I look in his eyes, oooooh Brian it's fanTAAAAAAAStic'
'When I hear his voice I feel warm all over. It's so deep and I can feel it all through me'
Exhibit Two:
Did he live up to her expectations?
According to heat magazine, she went to stay with him for a weekend and 'Just never left'!
If you are alone and seeking a little love and affection from the opposite sex Girlie, can I suggest these are all qualities which I highly recommend!
Bloody hell, they're the best references I've ever read!
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If that's having no charisma, put my name down for that! Bottle it, sell it, I'll buy a crate! By gum, he'll do for me!!!
P.S. Did I mention that he loves his mum as well?