[supernoodles!]

Well thats you isn`t it ,its a decision your parents made for you to go to your grandads funeral and its one the boys grandmother and dad have made for them.Who are we to say they should go.I know quite a few people actually who had a parent die when they were young and they never went to the funeral,they have dealt with deaths after this like any other normal human being.
Also,whats with the caps and all the !`s no need to be so worked up its just my opinion.