[Wildcat!]

This is the craziest thing. There are children in Malawi, who have absolutely no family whatsoever. She could easily adopt one of those kids, but, no, she has to try to get one that has family who still want her.
If she wants to help her, how about giving her grandma some money to raise that child.
Another thing, I dont think people who are 50 years old, should be allowed to adopt a child anyways.