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Originally posted by SiaSiaSia
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Originally posted by Zee
There's a 12 year gap between me and my older brother; we get on great but he doesn't really feel like a brother to me, he's married now and is always away on amazing holidays because his wife's parents live abroad so they're always over visiting etc, I never really see him anymore. If your mum does have another kid Lewis, I dunno if it'll be the same as my situation, but you maybe won't "connect" in the way that you do with your brother.
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That's what I was trying to say. If my mum had a baby now it really wouldn't be like a "proper" sibling to me.
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Yeah, like me and my younger brother said to my mum 'if we weren't his brothers we wouldn't be invited to the wedding' and she went absolutely mental; we were just saying what we felt, because we really never speak to him or have anything in common with him, but obviously she reacted in that way because we're all her children. My younger brother is 4 years younger than me, but he's a school year ahead of what he should be so he's grown up faster than he probably would have, so we have a lot in common and get on really well/have epic fights. That's what a sibling should be like, in my opinion, someone who can be your worst enemy one minute and be your best friend the next; not some stranger who's a decade older than you and shares no memories with you until you're old enough to read and write, y'know?