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Old 21-06-2009, 12:08 AM #34
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Originally posted by lisamarie
I can't believe some of the responses I'm seeing here.

He harassed her. He followed her around for days on end. He touched her every three seconds. He told her he was in love with her but that he wanted to wait until he was on the outside to do anything about it (which, if nothing else, is presumptuous). He judges her. He doesn't like her having fun with others. He calls her "dumb and thick" and that she doesn't see anything but herself. He starts getting nasty with her friends. He tries to make her jealous. He interrupts her sleep time and time again to make himself feel better. He begged Big Brother to make her like him.

And now, when she's finally fed up with it and is telling him where to go, she's being vilified? She's being judged because she prefers Marcus' company to Sree's whiny, clingy, possessive and obsessive version of friendship? Where's the logic here?

So what if she's friends with someone who flirts with her. She's a big girl. She can handle herself. There's a difference between Marcus' comments and Sree's overbearing, overpowering, and overwhelming possessiveness. The girl can't breathe with him! And when she finally claws back some space, he gets nasty.

It's wrong to judge her on this. She's tried to be as friendly as possible with him and he's taken it all for granted. The girl can't win in the eyes of a lot of you!

If anyone's two-faced in this situation, it's Lisa. She's telling Sree what he wants to hear and going to Noirin and doing the same.
Well said
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