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Oddly enough Nicola, you have been here longer than me, but I feel quite well established amongst some of the members. Probably on account of me being a loudmouth opinionated gobsh!te. However, the purpose of forums isn't really 1-2-1 conversations, or limited restricted cliques.

Or at least, that's not how it should be. That is the purpose of this complaint. If this gets addressed, then the forum will be more enjoyable for the existing members and will be more enticing for new members.

And Lance, I agree with what you said about the "underwear drawer". Without pointing any fingers, it seems that some members are unable to behave appropriately in a public forum, therefore shouldn't post at all.