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I think I'd chat to someone I felt close to. I'd be a bit wary of confronting the particular housemate in case it all went pear shaped (you can see the yellow streak down my back through my clothes!).

It's a bit of a 'Paul Clarke' scenario isn't it - he was forever nominated but never actually asked the other HM's outright - he didn't even discuss it with Helen that much, he just dealt with it.