[Shasown]

He has been reading too many psycho babble books, and saw in them that he had have to stamp his mark on the group, like any outsider has to in order to become accepted.

You either go in and try to take the lead, show yourself of some use, or hope for the pity of the group.

The way he talked to be in the kitchen showed his ignorance and arrogance, as opposed to the snappy personal remarks, he had of looked Bea in the eye and explained it was a BB scenario and not something that there is a right and wrong way to deal with, lets look at where we go from here, how can we limit the worsening of the situation sort of thing.

As for spinning on his chair and not looking at who he is talking to, it shows he has no respect for anyone. You will notice whenever he engages with people he rarely looks them in the eyes. Most people take this as a sign of dishonesty or arrogance in larger people and a sign of shyness in quieter smaller people.