[No1MakosiFan]

Originally posted by Bubs
This will be the very last post on this subject on this or any other site to do with Michelle and stuart as after reading a couple of more comments there I a few things I want to say!!
I find it extroadinary how easily people switch and how fickle as well hypercritical some have been!!
While Michelle was with Stuart, saying how much she loved him, how happy they were, people believed the relationship was amazing, they were the perfect couple, neither could do wrong lol! Myself included!!
Now I have read a number of people (by people I mean so called fans, so called friends) slating Michelle, Stuart as well as their relationship!!saying they knew it wouldn't last and for whatever reason!!Some to me almost sounding gleefull about it!! Like it doesn't matter two people have/were suffering!!
They I assume are basing their opinion on things they have read in ok! magazine, I have never believed everything I read however if people choose too that is there perogative.
I don't blame either for anything for the simple fact they have done nothing wrong, they met, fell in love in front of us on tv, that is as far into the relationship we got to see, and alot of that was made to make the relationship look very one sided which it was not!!But when people start talking about how the relationship was like out of the house it annoys me greatly because noone knows how the relationship was apart from two people Stuart and Michelle!!As for talking about body language in pictures well as someone has already pointed Michelle and Neils body language leaving the halloween parties wasn't great, does that mean there relationship is in crisis no, there could be 101 reasons it "appeared" how it did!!
Anyway Michelle now has a new boyfriend. Again people are focussing on her relationship and relationship alone!! Even Michelle has only spoken briefly about him in two interviews, has never actually been photographed with him just papped quite obviously twice not too her knowledge it seemed and once leaving the alan sugar event by which she appeared to not want her picture taken for reasons I don't know why!!However people are still focussing on her relationship alot, I have made no personal comments on Neil, I don't know him I have only seen pictures so feel I really comment on how a person is by pictures.
But I fear going by what I have read that people are focussing on him so much to an extent that if this relationship does not last, people that have talked about him like he is the next best thing since sliced bread, will have the nerve to slate him too just like with Stuart!!
No matter what anyones opinion is Michelle was in love with Stuart and am sure would be upset to read people saying nasty things about him or their relationship, whatever the state of that relationship is at in this moment in time!!
But like I said before this is how fickle some people are unfortunately and I wonder how quick the tune would change if by some chance Stuart and Michelle did get back together. I am sure it would be a case of deja vu whereby people will post what a lovely couple they make and how so right they are and all the nasty things that are/have been said will be brushed under the carpet no doubt!!
I am a Michelle fan and couldn't care less who she is going out with, she could have 10, 20 even 50 boyfriends if she wanted it is not my business only hers and if she is happy that is all that matters. I believe Michelle is a strong woman and does not need a man to be happy anyway, but if she is happy with Neil than good luck to her!!
I liked Stuart in BB and thought they made a great couple, I enjoyed reading all their interviews very much, obviously it didn't work which is sad but alot of relationships don't, it is the way of the world, I am sure both were hurt which is why I am bewildered people have added to that pain by saying such nasty things since the split was announced, or more speciffically since Michelle's first ok interview!!
Like I said I am a Michelle fan, not a Michelle and Boyfriend fan and I am going to enjoy finding out what she is up to in her career, and get away from all these arguements about what is going on in her persoanl life. Which I am starting to feel is overshadowing everything else.
If she wishes to disclose info on her personal life that is her perogative, however if I could give Michelle one bit of advice it would be to stay low key about it, as no doubt like I said before if this relationship happens to not work out I fear the hypercrites and fickles will no doubt have a field day about it!!
I just hope she is happy with life in general and all her dreams and aspirations come true!!
If I have offended anyone with comments I have made I am sorry but I will not apoligise for the things I have said as it is what I feel and what I personally think too!
Be sure to know I will not be coming on or posting on any site again, it isn't worth the hassle or grief anymore.
To all the friends I have made you all know who you are, you have my email addy, do keep in touch!!I understand if you don't want too, but I have grown to care for you all and consider you all friends, so I hope you all do!!

Well said Sarah and a brilliant post I agree with you and I wish Michelle all the good luck in the world whatever she does in the future and will always stay a loyal fan.