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Originally posted by loomy
I'm not 'trolling' or particularly looking for an argument but I do think Bea has been victim of unfair judgments and very very over the top reactions to some of her actions.
Firstly; she did not give Freddie a panic attack he gave it to himself. She has not manipulated him or employed evil pyschological techniques on him in an attempt to 'break' him, Freddie is just weak. It didn't affect Marcus when she tried to employ her 'evil' powers on him, he just shook it off.
Secondly; when she first came in I do firmly believe she attached herself to Freddie because he was the favourite. Bea isn't stupid and I believe that it wouldn't be without real reason that she would pick an argument with him and seperate herself from him. I do think that Marcus and Freddie have been horrible to her and in some way victimised her. For example, when Freddie was laughing at her distress and came running out to confront her even though it was non of his business. Even Marcus saw that he was acting like a total tool and told him to go back to bed.
Thirdly; the hypocrisy of people is astounding. Freddie has a 'panic attack' and all of a sudden if you dare suggest it's attention seeking or that it was funny you're a vile person. Yet these same people are quick to judge Bea and say that her tears or distress if fake and that she's playing the victim. Marcus was saying exactly the same thing to Bea last night (i.e. you're really negative) that Bea said to Freddie to set him off on his 'panic attack' but Bea isn't allowed to be upset about it? Has anyone considered that she might genuinely be feeling the pressure and really not enjoying the way they are treating her. 3 weeks with Freddie would be enough to reduce me to tears as well.
Bea is not 'evil' or a 'sociopath'; maybe she's a bit of a bitch but I don't see her as being much worse than the other people in there. I have honestly not seen her act in a totally inappropriate manner all I have seen is massively over the top reactions of some people in the house. The only thing Bea is guilty of is having picked a fight with the forum favourites. And before you forget NO ONE in the house likes Freddie; maybe Freddie fans might like to consider that he's just not really a very nice or likeable person.
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I always appreciate someone who takes the time to write a detailed post ..and it was interesting
but i think the element you are missing in the above, is that you assume that Bea lost her popularity over her treatment of Freddie (and his then panic attack)...
I think you will find she was losing sympathy in the previous week with her buttergate argument with David....again a simple argument with David which she wouldn't let drop (telling everyone about it she could) until she decides to close the argument with her usual line "you're really upsetting me"...David and her then did "make up" but she was still actively campaigning to vote against him until the Marcus ciggygate blew up, followed by her annoyance with Freddie at his attempts to mediate and then being in Marcus' rebel "gang"....
I thought she was great at first when, I admit, her targets agreed with mine : Kenneth and Noirin.....but it was with the largely harmless David that she started to lose it...
She now firmly believes Freddie, Siavash and Marcus are against her in some gang mentality and she has clearly joined Lisa and David who days before she despised
she mixes clever character assasination with heightened emotional drama..its not very balanced or pleasant