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Originally posted by loomy
I'm not 'trolling' or particularly looking for an argument but I do think Bea has been victim of unfair judgments and very very over the top reactions to some of her actions.
Firstly; she did not give Freddie a panic attack he gave it to himself. She has not manipulated him or employed evil pyschological techniques on him in an attempt to 'break' him, Freddie is just weak. It didn't affect Marcus when she tried to employ her 'evil' powers on him, he just shook it off.
Secondly; when she first came in I do firmly believe she attached herself to Freddie because he was the favourite. Bea isn't stupid and I believe that it wouldn't be without real reason that she would pick an argument with him and seperate herself from him. I do think that Marcus and Freddie have been horrible to her and in some way victimised her. For example, when Freddie was laughing at her distress and came running out to confront her even though it was non of his business. Even Marcus saw that he was acting like a total tool and told him to go back to bed.
Thirdly; the hypocrisy of people is astounding. Freddie has a 'panic attack' and all of a sudden if you dare suggest it's attention seeking or that it was funny you're a vile person. Yet these same people are quick to judge Bea and say that her tears or distress if fake and that she's playing the victim. Marcus was saying exactly the same thing to Bea last night (i.e. you're really negative) that Bea said to Freddie to set him off on his 'panic attack' but Bea isn't allowed to be upset about it? Has anyone considered that she might genuinely be feeling the pressure and really not enjoying the way they are treating her. 3 weeks with Freddie would be enough to reduce me to tears as well.
Bea is not 'evil' or a 'sociopath'; maybe she's a bit of a bitch but I don't see her as being much worse than the other people in there. I have honestly not seen her act in a totally inappropriate manner all I have seen is massively over the top reactions of some people in the house. The only thing Bea is guilty of is having picked a fight with the forum favourites. And before you forget NO ONE in the house likes Freddie; maybe Freddie fans might like to consider that he's just not really a very nice or likeable person.
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I think Bea is neither stupid nor especially bright. She knows what she is doing, and she is very articulate. However, she thinks she has a foolproof strategy and has not taken into account how this will look to the viewer when she uses people.
We are all different and have varying degrees of sensitivity. Freddie is a sensitive guy and whether people think he was having a panic attack or whatever, imo he did appear to be in genuine distress and exremely stressed. For me, Bea's worst moment was her insensitivity to this and to move in for the kill so to speak, at that moment and mock his faltering speech. That is either cruel or grossly insensitive, I can see no other way of looking at it.
I think Freddie is just in completely the wrong environment, I would not be surprised if he has never watched the show, and remember, he was invited to audition by the producers who happened to meet him somewhere, he did not audition. And he seems to be analysing everything aloud as if he is part of an experiment, which ultimately of course, he is.
Bea is one of these people who justify over the top remarks with "I say things how they are" but in fact says things how she wishes to see them, and these remarks are rarely objective.