Ziola if this is still upsetting you as much as it obviously is then you will be doing the right thing by telling your parents and asking them for some support and advice.
If this site is so poorly subscribed that the admin has to rely on racists as regular members, I would seriously re-consider my choice of forums to hang out at. He has abviously taken the stance that this guy is not so bad and you are not going to get any kind of back up from him.
Just move over here for good we have a lovely room available for the right full time resident and we can have to decorated in whatever colour you would like