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Originally posted by kisywisy
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Originally posted by Iceman
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Originally posted by kisywisy
i hope everything works out ok. i know stomach cancer is really bad.
my mum died of cancer in 2001, one of the secondery cancers was bone cancer. she went into remission for a few years, but it came back even worse. it was horrible.
my dad also died 2 years ago, not of cancer, but he had cancer and didn't tell us.
it's such a horrible disease. there;s nothing anyone can say to you that will make you feel better, but talking about it might. just offloading to people on the internet could make you feel a bit more content. i'd also try looking up forums specifically for cancer sufferers like yourself so you could share you're experiences and feelings
all the best!!
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That is really scary to me because basically what you said happened to my Mother at the same time....8 years this October which is crazy....seems like a lifetime ago......
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i know!! it was april 2001 she died. it seems like yesterday, but so long ago at the same time!!
i was pregnant when she died, so every year my little girl gets a year older i'm reminded by how long ago it was.
can i ask a question?? do you have a problem visiting her grave?? i do. i've only been 4 times coz it rips me apart. i'm fine the rest of the time, but the cemetery just gets to me.
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I don't go up to the grave because it gets me upset and angry and just gets to me for days.....the last time I went was about 3 or 4 years ago, maybe it will be different now but i'm not sure if i'll go soon......
Yeah I get what you mean about seeming so long ago and then not so long ago, sometimes I forget then i'm like what the hell it cant be that long ago....
I always remember though just around 9/11, it's like an alarm to me...