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MissKittyFantastico
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Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Gwladys Street
Posts: 21,129
Favourites:
X Factor 2010: Matt Cardle
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MissKittyFantastico
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Gwladys Street
Posts: 21,129
Favourites:
X Factor 2010: Matt Cardle
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[rquote=2533370&tid=145971&author=J-Rock][rquote=2533350&tid=145971&author=MissKittyFantasti co]I think Siavash's biggest downfall is that he worries far too much what other people think of him, I've said this before, I do actually believe he is carrying around a lot of insecurity within himself. Yes he wear flamboyant clothes, and talks the talk, but a lot of people do that to try and make themselves feel better. Also if it's true about his father regarding him as a freak, well that would put a HUGE amount of self doubt and paranoia into someone's head.
I think he's a people pleaser yes, he is desperate to be liked, and that has been his gameplan. He's craving acceptance from everyone, which is actually quite sad. He seems very confused about who he is, and I think that is why we're seeing him as he is now, he doesn't know what to do for the best at this point.
BB have not helped this situation AT ALL, and I think they've been very rough on him the past couple of weeks. [/rquote]
Yes, people-pleaser is probably an apt label, but I also think he (at least in his own mind) is trying to be true to himself and what he believes is right for him to do. He's not trying to win it, which is what so many people accuse him of - misunderstood (just like Freddie and Marcus)...[/rquote]
Oh no doubt, I do believe he is trying desperately to stay true to himself, which is where the not nominating thing came from, he saw his friends being ganged up on in the block vote, could see what was going on, and he thought it wasn't right so he protested in the only way he could see how, by taking himself out of the process. A flawed concept perhaps, but he was being true to himself and what he believes in.
But this is battling against his wish to be liked and understood as well, no wonder he is so confused and at odds with himself. He is only 23 as well, people tend to forget that he is very young still.
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