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[rquote=2554825&tid=147177&author=VickyJ][rquote=2554816&tid=147177&author=MassiveTruck][rquote=2554796&tid=147177&author=VickyJ]
Also, do you have a link to where freddie says he didnt think his treatment in the house was bad? I havent seen anything to suggest this to be honest[/rquote]
But he never commented on it and even during this time where peopel said he was being bullied, he did talk and spend time with Kris, Charlie and also Lisa - in fact he talked to them more than Marcus but they also had their altercations too.
As the series progressed they talked more and mingled more and got along as well. Is that the sound of somebody who was bullied?
When you are bullied you are afraid of somebody, you are afraid of sleeping near them and being around them. You in fact hide from them and make excuses for being near them?
Freddie spent time with them, confronted them on issues he didn't like (some that led to arguments) and sat near them constantly.
How is it bullying?[/rquote]
That is not true at all. It is possible to be bullied without having a massive fear of being around them.
He didnt comment on it...would you? Seriously...
There are many forms of bullying, and purposely isolating someone in order to make them feel uncomfortable...'unworthy' one might say, is one of them.[/rquote]
But that isolation is a matter of perspective and if he was isolated it is a matter of how much communication he had with people during that time as well - which was a lot.
There was no abuse or insults. He did in fact wind them up as well and in some ways, which I would say was purposeful. Making the girls feel awkward and uncomfortable too.
I would also disagree that there are several types of bullying. OK, Physical and Mental but you have to question how is it bullying when he is eating, sleeping, - i mean no real psychological changes occurred with Freddy. He was still a healthy individual and was still working alongside these people.
If that is a view of bullying then I would say I've been bullied a billion times in my life but knowing that he wasn't isolated and was just having arguments, then - it's just a matter of interpretation and wanting to dislike another housemate.
You can only get into Big Brother if you have a hate figure and a fave as well. In order to dislike Lisa (as people chose her as a hate figure) they needed the generic knight in shining armour. Apart from singing badly, there were no best bits for Freddie - ok, the speech in the bedroom, but that's it.
He was only popular because he wound up people in the house and people supported the victim status he perpetuated.
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