[rquote=2604345&tid=148092&author=arsenalforever][rquote=2604342&tid=148092&author=Dr.Gonzo]Yeh, that's happened a couple of times. It's trial and error like most things in life. You start to trust your instincts, spotting things you don't like earlier than you once would, enabling you to get out before the sh*t starts to stink. Now, I'm with a girl I'm crazy about, and I can look back on all of those other failed relationships with appreciation because they got me where I am today. It's just a learning curve that most people have to humour. It's not a bad thing, it's just another ingredient in the stewing pot of life.[/rquote]
i suppose but a lot of those bad reltionship's haunt me like a bad acid flashback
its just the way you acted or what the other person did[/rquote]
Get this....
My last ex, well, she was an evil psychotic b*tch. I didn't know it at the time. One day, about six months into the ordeal, I get an email from some random hotmail account. It says she's cheating on me and not to believe that she's going to her brother's the coming weekend. So, who do i trust? A random internet c0ck, or my girlfriend? I don't even question it, but ask her if there's anyone she knows that could be trying to cause us some sh*t. She says that she doesn't but asks me to forward her the email. I do this, and guess what, after not faultering with my trust for her, she blames me... ME. Sending myself an email telling myself not to trust her... lol. That was it after that. We stayed together a lil bit longer, but I never got over being accused of such a stupid thing. I'd been nothing but a stand-up boyfriend and get accused of that. So, I dumped her. naturally.