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Old 27-09-2009, 12:27 PM #1
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My best friend's girlfriend is also at Glasgow Uni; he came down to visit her last Thursday/Friday (stayed the night) because he's at Aberdeen Uni so obviously can't see her every day. He left on the Friday at night; she went out to the foam party I was at and she cheated on him. They'd been going out for 18 months, but she dumped him the next day because she didn't want to give a long distance relationship a try.

Anyway, she keeps trying to hang out with me, but I feel really awkward about it so I keep "forgetting" to hang out with her, hoping that she'll get the message, but she really isn't getting it. What complicates things is that he still cares about her, one of the things he said to me after they broke up was "can you make sure she's okay?" and "she's a nice girl" - nice girls don't cheat on their boyfriends. I can't (and wouldn't anyway) be nasty towards her because all of his other friends are ignoring her (the friends that are also at Glasgow), so I'm the only one she knows that hasn't actually been rude to her yet... Do I hang out with her or do I keep avoiding her? She lives in the next building, it's so so awkward...

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