[WOMBAI]

You have a lot to learn about what is really sexy. Sexy is in the mind - in the personality and confidence.

Why are we not discussing what body size men are. Why should it be different. Do you conform to a certain size - or don't you think it applies to men? If so, why not?

Everyone, regardless of sex, should look after themselves and keep themselves in good shape and healthy - but why should women be pressured to be a certain size.

Personally - I think that men who try to put that sort of pressure on women are very unattractive. It speaks volumes about their character and how superficial they are.

I generally like men to be in good shape and fairly slim - but it is not the be all and end all - other things are much more important. The same applies to women. They do not need to be stick thin to be attractive (it is a horrible look) and they should not give a damn about men who think like that. Their opinion is flawed.