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Originally Posted by Athleticguy29
Shes isolating herself!
everybody else can see whats going on apart from Sov,she just doesnt want to be a team player,and only cares about herself.
I like Sov but she isnt making things easy for herself.
And what Vinnie and Nicky said/did is NOT bullying, Sov wasnt there to hear or see it to start with.
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Isolating oneself is a human defence mechanism to shield oneself from rejection. If you push people away
they cannot reject you.
She is now operating as an individual having decided that she has been rejected and regards it as too risky emotionally to be part of a group.
I think once she felt the rejection any chance of her re-integrating with the group died due to the high risk of risking rejection again.
Its interesting to see an individual free agent vs a group, I'd like to see this situation sustained by keeping her in so we can see where it goes.