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Originally Posted by Zippy
Women choose the father of their children. Choose somebody who is likely to stick around and be a good father. Men do not like wearing rubbers so it will never ever be difficult for a woman to get a man to have sex with her bareback; truth is, men dont think straight when theyre horny and stiff. Cliched but true. Its women who carry the consequences so I cant imagine why you would let a man **** you without any contraception. Unless you actually want to get pregnant. Insist he rubbers up if not.
The choices a man has regards children pretty much end when he shoots his load. From that point on its all about what the woman wants. A man can make a drunken mistake but its the woman who then has the power to make him pay for that mistake. If they both agree it was a mistake then why should he then be forced to be a father when she has all the options? Having children is a womans prerogative so spare me the equal responsibility nonsense. It will only be equal when men have a 50% say in whether a woman carrys that child for 9 months and then what they do with it.
And if these gang members have only had a female parent then how can you blame men for how they turned out? You can only blame the parent that has been there. I agree that single mothers CAN raise decent children. But those who raise bad children deserve criticism for it. Like Ive said, THEY chose the father of that child in the first place so if he buggered off then you made a BAD CHOICE.
It only takes two to conceive a child. Actually, these days it only needs one.
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I think you miss the point! To excuse men from their responsibility because they don't like wearing a rubber and only think with their dick is the old, old, story and just doesn't wash! Men don't think straight when aroused - well if they expect to be taken seriously - then they better start doing so, hadn't they! If this is another consequence of getting drunk - they hey don't get drunk! Ffs take some responsibility! You just prove my point! That is not man thinking - it is very much boy thinking! Sorry, but true!
Men have their say at the time of conception - use it wisely - or shut up whinging!
Men also have responsiblity for how their children turn out - by not being there to ensure the child's emotional stability! You can make excuses all you like for men - they simply aren't good enough!