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Originally Posted by MrWong
So you think being gay is just a trend for her most probably because she's spoilt..
... and think it's wrong for her to cry over a straight girl.
She's gay, being spoilt (pure speculation by you) has F all to do with it.
Why can't you accept that she's gay? It's not a 'trend'.
Your niece exploring her sexuality won't make her gay, either she is or she isn't. Shabby Ranks is 24, i'm sure she knows exactly who she is by now.
Gay lads/lasses fall for straight people alot, it happens. You can't help who you are attracted to, it's how you deal with it that matters.
They get upset too when it's unrequited love. Ya know, just like straight people do when they like some and they don't like them back?? Then they might have a lil cry about it... big deal. It's the same for straight people isn't it?
Most of the hm's have gotten emotional, they've spoken about their feelings too, shocker!! 
Or is it only Shabby Ranks that's not allowed to?
Try dialing that number, i think you'll find it's the wrong one. |
I agree with much of what you say but not the bits in bold.
No doubt all you say in bold is true from your own personal experiences but from my experiences as a straight man, if I was attracted to a woman and she told me she was gay I’d still be attracted to her, but my pursuit of her would end pretty abruptly. As she is clearly unattainable. I’d probably get upset but I know I’d never cry about it.
Shabby’s contradictory nature is one of the things I find quite interesting about her, but I still think it is frankly absurd to cry when someone so out of her league – in so many ways - rejects her advances. Shabby likes to tell others to grow up but in this instance she’s showing incredible emotional immaturity.