[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by calyman

I'm glad that others recognise what I have witnessed in the housemates treatment of Ben. For those who express an active dislike of him, I've yet to see one substantive and obvious example of his bitchieness, manipulation, game plan etc. Sure there are loads of inadequate examples where invented "facts" and questionable accusations are levelled against him, just like scabby with her histrionics over being called an "actress", being caught out s******ing behind JJ's back, or his friend JJ repeatedly betraying the "friendship" they have by gossiping with others and taking out of context the harmless converstaions they have had. Which then get blown up to be the Crime of the decade against the blessed scabby.

As I said earlier, Ben is quite a naive person, he is only to willing to trust others, I don't know why he cannot wise up and be more circumspect in what bhe is saying. He must know there are some in the house who are clearly friends with him and others who never will be. JJ is even worse than scabby, because he maintains he is friends with Ben, yet constantly snipes at him or behind his back. At least scabby (apart from her nasty emotional manipulation) is clear aqbout her feelings towards Ben.

I would like Ben to be more aware, show more insight into those conversastions he is having with others and actually make his feelings clear and assert his right to have his own views and not constantly apologise for expressing his honest opinions.

It's interesting that my term s******ing "snig-gering" should be blocked out by the thought police

Well I'm still waiting for Starry to send me a list of all the nasty things he said !!