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Originally Posted by jj43
On LF housemates talking in bedroom that whenever talk about women with JJ he shows no interest like a normal red blooded male would show. Whats peoples opinions.
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I don't really follow JJ much or like him much either but I have seen this sort of 'phase' before.
What happened is that he is attractive to women but is also very sensitive and worse yet is (was) far too naive.
Now, at about age 25 he just sorted out a little of how he has been played.. feels very used.. feels stupid.. burned, angry about it. Brings in 'Eff that!' and is overly defensive.
JJ is definitely not one of my fave HMs and if he left tomorrow I doubt I'd barely notice,
but,
in this specific issue I think there is good reason for it and unfortunately for him it had to happen eventually due to his character, age, personality etc.
So it may be good.
He is someone who will be better to start seriously dating/courting more when he is about 30 or even 35,
and,
he will look for long-term women.
Ultimately this is not a bad thing at all but right now its a bad phase for him and for women who make a go at him.