You do look very different 30S. I suppose it's how you feel thats the main thing. I was overweight by a couple of stone myself about 2 or 3 years ago. Now I actually worry if I
lose weight. I'm spot on average for my height but I've dropped lower through illness before and looked dreadful
I hate it. I like average or slightly bigger for me. But am a size 10 and feel OK. Trouble is even at size 10 people always comment on me being so small. I can't win!