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Originally Posted by BB_Eye
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And seriously this really does give an insight into where homosexuality can be coming from.
I have no doubt that he had a terrible and awkward and unsuccessful time trying to please a woman (and assume she was English and x that 100),
and/or
more than that itself is what kind of:
-expectations (maybe even instilled by a sudden media-hyped sex culture of his youth (60s, 70s)
- what he, in his own mind, believed about himself (confidence, esteem etc) and maybe what he 'projected' into the women.
Even though I do think there are different 'programs' for male and female sexuality (men may be more the constant where women more a cycle) I would actually agree with a feminist for once:
- Women really CAN have sex anytime they want,
and,
- Oh yes they do. Plenty. Initiated and done often.
Anyways, a lot of this is only shocking to those who have never really hung about with gay crowds (no jokes here.. i mean plain non-sexual socializing) because realistically you hear the most outrageous, vicious, vile, spiteful contempt about women among many a gay.
I can never forget a time when I was (at least to some degree) 'accepted' in a gay circle.
(once again, resist the obvious jokes and no I did not 'go gay'),
but,
in this one case there was 2 women, myself and then a majority of gays. The women eventually left.
Holy EFF - I heard about 1 hour straight of the most horrifying 'anti-women' jokes (if you can call them jokes?) that honestly in my entire life I would never even imagined!
I mean I almost wanted to vomit and I thought I'd heard all the crude jokes! Until then.
but it did quickly degenerate into the most thinly veiled sheer hatred. I mean almost 'scary contempt' for females.
Anyways... thats a long story just to say we ought not be too surprised and interestingly this may say more about him than anything else.