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Originally Posted by lauraC
But you all jumped on mario because he said that the ben fans who were abusing him are idiots, you all took that personally therefore you are the ones who are grouping yourselves together and flying under the same flag.
I think you are doing ben a disservice because Ben didn't like mario he bitched about him that's fine, he has to live with the consequences of that and he is, that's the loss of mario's friendship, that's between the two of them but when you see mario abused on forums and done under ben's name people remember the bad things about ben and not the good.
Every time I see another thread like this one, Is mario jealous of ben? I just remember all the horrible things ben has said and done. You are not giving people the chance to forget
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I think you will find that Truth Teller was not taking anything personally but was simply reporting on what Mario himself stated about Ben fans.
In doing so, Mario therefore distanced himself even further - alienated himself further.
I really don't understand the 'doing Ben a disservice' idea comes into play. Ben doesn't use the internet much. He certainly doesn't read the forums, doesn't do twitter, is very much is own man, with his own life outwith webland (clearly he has a far more fulfilling life than any of us posting on here !! LOL )
You may indeed recall things that Ben did or said that you view or consider horrible. That is your perogative.
Just as it is my perogative to view many things that I saw and heard from Mario that I found deeply unsettling, and not to put too fine a point on it... creepy and skin crawling. Are these harsh words? Yes, they are. But that is the impression that Mario made on me. I can't change that. The only person who could have, would have been Mario.
If he had taken stock once the show was over, he could have redeemed himself, but he didn't. He continued in the same way that I saw him be in the house, immature, bitter and had himself up on some pedestal. He continues to think like this as seen by his twitterings.