Novo is the best Ben imo.
Even if the name Ben reminds me of my bumchum I had at school.
Everyone thought we bummed each other. Like thought we were in a relationship with each other.
It was really strange when he stayed at my house one night and I saw gay porn on his phone. I didn't expect it to say the least. He's engaged to a girl now as well.
I'd never tell anyone. That would be nasty. Well, I did, but only friends at the time.